This is a hard world. We know this, and we move through it daily. As the grip of capitalism, and all the ‘phobics cinch tighter daily it can be hard to figure out where you fit into the whole mosaic of Life. I have been working under the title of “The Untamed Priestess” since 2017/2018 and I still struggle with what my true, core purpose is. As the world ebbs and flows, so do I. My mission of helping to inspire others to ditch patriarchy is still the foundation, but I struggle with the method of delivery at times. So, I thought maybe you might struggle too.
Maybe some steps might help you, like they’ve helped me. I thought I’d ramble a little and share them with you.
Step 1: Savor Stillness
The world urges us to move faster, to do more, to achieve relentlessly. Yet, purpose often emerges in stillness. Allow yourself to pause. Step outside, close your eyes and listen—to the wind, the rhythm of your breath, the murmur of your soul. What stirs in these moments of quiet when you’re not “performing” for anyone? These gentle nudges often point toward the gifts waiting to be shared.
Step 2: Follow the Glimmers
Pay attention to what lights you up. Is it the scent of freshly baked bread, the melody of an old record, the way sunlight dances through stained glass? These aren’t just fleeting pleasures; they’re signposts. Lean into them. Your purpose is intertwined with what brings you pure happiness – this is when you’re at your best. How can you lean into the glimmers and how can you share them with others?
Step 3: Honor Your Wounds
The cracks in our hearts often reveal the most radiant light. Think back to moments that have shaped you, even the painful ones. What lessons have they taught you? What strength have you gained? Your scars are not flaws to hide but badges of resilience and wisdom, forming part of your unique story—a story that could guide and inspire others. Your suffering wasn’t for nothing.
Step 4: Create Without Fear
Your gifts are meant to be shared, not judged. Whether you’re painting, writing, gardening, or simply crafting moments of connection, release the need for perfection. Pour yourself into your creations with abandon. The world needs your voice, your vision, your touch—raw and unpolished, just as it is.
Step 5: Embrace Community
No journey is meant to be taken alone. Find your kindred spirits—the ones who celebrate your victories and hold you in your struggles. Purpose flourishes in community, where your unique gifts intersect with others’, creating a tapestry of shared beauty and meaning.
Step 6: Trust the Process
Purpose is not a straight line but a winding path. There will be days when it feels clear and days when it feels impossibly out of reach. Trust that each step, each stumble, each moment of doubt is part of the unfolding. Lean into the mystery, and let it guide you.
In the end, purpose is not about becoming someone new; it’s about returning to yourself. It’s about peeling back the layers of expectation and doubt until what remains is you—radiant, imperfect, and utterly enough. You already hold the key to your purpose. It’s there, nestled in your laughter, your dreams, and your quietest moments. All you have to do is listen and let it lead you home.
Love you, be well
Autumn
The Untamed Priestess 🌙